I used to consider myself an extreme extrovert. Kept in touch with old friends , played golf with , poker games etc. After the accident , while I was laying in a German, and eventually Canadian Hospital , life changed a lot. I still have buddies who show up to hang at my place for a BBQ , beer and a swim , but its nowhere like it used to be. I'm back under the knife tomorrow at noon , and God willing , home again in a couple days. My limited mobility has been a major drawback for a social life. I used to be extremely active with Soccer , Golf , and sports in general. Most of my social life evolved around good friends from those activities , now its mostly family.
Don't get me wrong , I am blessed to be given a 2nd chance at life, especially when I see how others have fared with Spinal Cord injuries. I went from bed ridden, to wheelchair , to Walker and now capable of walking.
Its mostly a matter of " Out of sight , Out of Mind "