Venditto, there's some truth in your statement. Just that I think you need to parse your language more precisely.
I don't think "nice" is the correct word. You really do need to be an "assassin" when it comes to attacking the # on the board.
"Nice" isn't the right word. The best-prepared combatant will win (over time). And your preparation needs to be tight, not loose.
As for posting on a messing board, throwing shit against the wall, and just hoping you win. Ya, fuq you. Your $$ is already gone.