I wouldn't ask them to take the charge off, I would expect a hoity toity joint (googled it to verify and it is Frasier Crane/Patrick Bateman material) to do some Hebrew shit like that. My older brother (makes a very good living, way more than me) was flabbergasted when I tipped 6$ on the pin pad at Cafe Rio he was like "All they did was their job!" I was like "Bro, I got to see my food in the kitchen environment and got to watch them prepare it? I'll throw down an extra 5for that anyday"
Fidel did you order the "Black Guy laying on his back getting his mouth stomped on" dish