There's a man I like and he started chatting with me again after many months of no communication only to find out that he made a new "fling" who in the end insisted on commitment and trying to rule his life.
I ask him why he is being nice again after the fact that he is the one who gets rid of me and he was very honest to answer all my questions about that part of his newfound girl.
I am not dumb or innocent to know what he wants, or why he started to reconnect again. I told him, I will not going to be there with him only when it is comfortable for him.
Guys, I am sharing this because I know a lot of you can relate. It's very lonely to be alone but it's more lonely to be with someone that makes you feel alone. So choose your battle wisely. Just don't start a relationship or be in a toxic relationship because you're lonely, but start whenever you're ready.
At the end of this life no matter how rich or loaded we are (which I hope I am lol), we still can't be happy if we are not happy deep inside. We are all longing for that one true love that will make us feel valued.