American women are unpleasable. They are just not worth it....wreck your life w a divorce, destroy your future w a kid unless you've got that financial arrangement secure PRIOR...and I mean even couples- men in a committed relationship, should consider foregoing marriage UNTIL the kid is delivered, and only then via a contractual (surregate) type arrangement filed w the Court, so as to expel and financial responsibility if the broad were to pick up and leave.
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