Just stay more humble overall and you will get along with more of the posters. That's the best advice I can give you. I don't know exactly what
@phantom888 is doing, either tailing you or stealing your plays as you say, and I don't really care to verify. Please if you would just let that go and move on. If you want to PM him your concerns then that would be best to address your issue with him. Or talk about that in the basement rather.