Yes impossible for an average man.
I've tried em all , a man has to send a 100+ msgs, most of which wont get read. and MAYBE 1 will reply.
I've gone on 2 dates in the last 10 yrs through online alone. She was OK, 6/10 , i prefer some chunk to their body , but not clinically obese, which is what 90% of the profiles are.
1 in a thousand match , maybe there is a chance of a real relationship/marriage, which does happen.
They're mostly cheaters/ looking for flings.
A Good looking, well-off woman will generally not be looking online for a serious relationship.
She will be flocked by men IRL, and would simply have to choose.
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That being said, i'm no relationship expert.
Sammy, u have the looks, the job, the $ and ur own place i'm assuming. which checks all green flags for a man.
Try Meetup !, going for activities of ur choice to meet ppl IRL.
Or bars, i suppose, but not recommended.