My best friend is a lesbian as everyone already knows. Her advice to me is about how we need to earn money so we will not going to be a burden or left alone when we grow old. She knows that I don't want to have my own kids anymore. She told me, "We need to earn so someday when we grow old it's not going to be a problem thinking who's going to take care of us, yeah sure we have our nephews and nieces but do you think they are really going to take care of us? If we have money, no need to tell them they are going to stick with us, but if you don't? I don't think so." also, she added, "With money, we can just go in a home for the aged facility and die there with peace" Haha --> one of the many honest and sincere advice I received from her.