ATTN: BobbyFK

[JDS]

Never heard of it

Don’t worry about it you’ll never be involved in one stay innocent.

 

[djefferis]

Amazes me how some of you guys can’t seem to keep the perspective that there are KIDS involved here.

Would I be “comfortable” of my wife said my ex is coming over and hanging out - probably not. BUT if it is with kids he shares with my wife/his ex - totally different - he’s there for them/not her.

Ultimately- it’s about letting the kids have every advantage and opportunity. Completely different - but my mother was raised by her aunt from age 10-22…she actually thought her mother was her aunt until age 18. Anyway - when I was born - her mother began to come into the picture more and let it be known that “she” would be my maternal grandmother- much to the chagrin of my mom’s aunt. I grew up with 2 grandmothers on that side of the family and considered my mom’s aunt my grandmother to the day she passed.

While it was nice that my “true” grandmother was known to me - that lady was everything a grandmother could have been to me and more. Fortunately for me my family made it work. Of course immediately after she passed my moms cousin (her only son who lived with his father beyond age 12 mostly) made sure to let it be known only HIS children would be considered grandchildren- but I didn’t give a shit and still don’t. Such petty ass move still especially given the family literally had nothing.

 

[JDS]

Amazes me how some of you guys can’t seem to keep the perspective that there are KIDS involved here.

Would I be “comfortable” of my wife said my ex is coming over and hanging out - probably not. BUT if it is with kids he shares with my wife/his ex - totally different - he’s there for them/not her.

Ultimately- it’s about letting the kids have every advantage and opportunity. Completely different - but my mother was raised by her aunt from age 10-22…she actually thought her mother was her aunt until age 18. Anyway - when I was born - her mother began to come into the picture more and let it be known that “she” would be my maternal grandmother- much to the chagrin of my mom’s aunt. I grew up with 2 grandmothers on that side of the family and considered my mom’s aunt my grandmother to the day she passed.

While it was nice that my “true” grandmother was known to me - that lady was everything a grandmother could have been to me and more. Fortunately for me my family made it work. Of course immediately after she passed my moms cousin (her only son who lived with his father beyond age 12 mostly) made sure to let it be known only HIS children would be considered grandchildren- but I didn’t give a shit and still don’t. Such petty ass move still especially given the family literally had nothing.

I’m just busting his balls for the most part, Bobby’s a good sport.

 

[jjgold]

He is a good guy
Bobby come to Reno

 

[keithrichard]

@BobbyFK tell us the story about the black guy that was squatting in your house.

How long was he there for?

How did you get him out?

Did he eat your food?

Did you have to pay him to leave?

Did you sleep with a gun next to your bed.

Thanks!

This guy removed from Dullest poster list.

 

[patrickbateman]

@BobbyFK wasn't the black guy living in your house for a few months before he left.

How can you allow him to just come over and kick it for a few days? That's one strange situation.

Like the Moron religion where men have multiple wives living in the same house.

I know there are kids involved but it has to be akward. Plus the guy is probably hung like a horse.

 

[patrickbateman]

Amazes me how some of you guys can’t seem to keep the perspective that there are KIDS involved here.

Would I be “comfortable” of my wife said my ex is coming over and hanging out - probably not. BUT if it is with kids he shares with my wife/his ex - totally different - he’s there for them/not her.

Ultimately- it’s about letting the kids have every advantage and opportunity. Completely different - but my mother was raised by her aunt from age 10-22…she actually thought her mother was her aunt until age 18. Anyway - when I was born - her mother began to come into the picture more and let it be known that “she” would be my maternal grandmother- much to the chagrin of my mom’s aunt. I grew up with 2 grandmothers on that side of the family and considered my mom’s aunt my grandmother to the day she passed.

While it was nice that my “true” grandmother was known to me - that lady was everything a grandmother could have been to me and more. Fortunately for me my family made it work. Of course immediately after she passed my moms cousin (her only son who lived with his father beyond age 12 mostly) made sure to let it be known only HIS children would be considered grandchildren- but I didn’t give a shit and still don’t. Such petty ass move still especially given the family literally had nothing.

Why can't the ex take the kids to his place like most divorced couples do?

 

[DiggityDaggityDo]

@BobbyFK Plus the guy is probably hung like a horse.

Is this true?

 

[JDS]

Is this true?

Maybe Bobby will confirm.

 

[maltedhopsfrenzy]

Luckily for me, my wife had one ‘long term’ relationship, where she was ‘engaged’ (she broke it off almost immediately, never married), and we found out he OD’d like 2 years after we were married. Guy never came around, neither of us brought kids into the relationship/marriage, and we don’t have any kids.

I’m pretty fragile and jealous, I wouldn’t be able to handle a previous ‘suitor’ even in the same area code, let alone staying multiple nights in my house…..

 

[edawg]

Luckily for me, my wife had one ‘long term’ relationship, where she was ‘engaged’ (she broke it off almost immediately, never married), and we found out he OD’d like 2 years after we were married. Guy never came around, neither of us brought kids into the relationship/marriage, and we don’t have any kids.

I’m pretty fragile and jealous, I wouldn’t be able to handle a previous ‘suitor’ even in the same area code, let alone staying multiple nights in my house…..

The way you cook there is nothing to worry about. Just install a messaging hand held shower head and she ain't never gonna leave you.

 

[Tanko]

Squatting in my house? He's my wife's ex husband. He comes over every once in a while to visit. Stays for a few days and then leaves. Cooks, helps clean.

Wait.... Your wife's ex is an African American?
Dayam, partner. That's a hard one to follow.

Does the wife ever comment about missing "Mr. Roundtree" or do you just happen to be one of the few white boys who god graciously gifted with a monster serpant?

 

[Tanko]

Its cool you let him come over to see the kids. He should do that and stay in touch with them. Just make sure Angeleyes doesn't reminisce about the old days. It would be a bad sign.

 

[BobbyFK]

Its cool you let him come over to see the kids. He should do that and stay in touch with them. Just make sure Angeleyes doesn't reminisce about the old days. It would be a bad sign.

No she most certainly doesn't

 

[RRsilver]

Squatting in my house? He's my wife's ex husband. He comes over every once in a while to visit. Stays for a few days and then leaves. Cooks, helps clean.

Sounds like a nice guy to help out around the house like that!!

 

[Tanko]

Sounds like a nice guy to help out around the house like that!!

@BobbyFK does he clean the toilets and wash your dirty tighty whitey's?

 

[DiggityDaggityDo]

@BobbyFK does he clean the toilets and wash your dirty tighty whitey's?

That would be weird Tanko.

Probably just cleans the bed sheets and other stuff he uses.

 

[Tanko]

That would be weird Tanko.

Probably just cleans the bed sheets and other stuff he uses.

That Bobby uses or the Ex uses....
It makes a difference.

 

[KingKolzig]

BuriedFK

 

[BobbyFK]

@BobbyFK does he clean the toilets and wash your dirty tighty whitey's?

I wear boxers guy